Getting What You Want

One of the nice things about manifestation is the feeling of power and control that it can give you over what’s going on in your life.

You see, I think one of the things that’s most unfortunate about our modern society is the way that people find themselves so disempowered – we are all somehow “programmed” to believe that we don’t have much influence or control over the circumstances we live in as adults.

To some degree this is because we are brought up as children in a way that doesn’t encourage us to believe in our power and magnificence – nor does it encourage us to believe that we are free to do whatever we want, or to express ourselves however we like. (See this for more on magnificence!)

Video on magnificence

And of course, to some extent there is truth in this – for it would be a sorry society indeed if everybody was free to express themselves without restriction or boundaries of any kind!

Having said that, what I’m really referring to is the fact that most people have a far more limited view of what they’re capable of than the reality of their power and potential. In short, if given the opportunity, most people could properly express far more power and potential, and achieve far more in the world, than they ever do.

You may believe that’s true for you, in which case you might, over the years, have tried to find some way of achieving greater self-expression, control and power, or influence over your environment.

Indeed, in this regard, it wouldn’t surprise me at all if you hadn’t read The Secret By Rhonda Byrne, which was a book published in 2006 or 2007, and I think perhaps also was published as a film, in which she purported to explain the secrets of manifestation and the Law of Attraction.

If You’ve Read The Secret, Manifestation May Still Be A Mystery!

For all the good intentions of The Secret, it didn’t reveal much about manifestation and how you can make it work for your own benefit.

You see, The Secret was long on personal experience and short on instruction – and the fact of the matter is that unless you have some clear guidance about how to use the techniques of manifestation, you’re probably not going to be able to make them work successfully.

A lot of authors have made a great deal of money by propagating the viewpoint that manifestation is one of the simplest and easiest things for everybody to master – giving us the power, it seems, to get whatever we want in life, be it prosperity, abundance, a great relationship, material goods of all kinds, a beautiful home by the sea… You name it, apparently you can have it.

Except of course it isn’t that simple – as you might well have experienced! Manifestation and the Law of Attraction are actually quite complicated concepts, and there a bit of a mystery to most of us, even after we’ve read hundreds of websites and read hundreds of books on the subject. Go here to check this out.

But there is some simple guidance, which is accurate, and is written by people who know what they’re talking about, who have lived the Law of Attraction and mastered the techniques, rather than just made money from them by taking advantage of people who are desperate for some kind of change in their life situation.

Happily, I can guide you to that very source of information – all you have to do is click here – and you’ll find all the information you need about manifestation and law of attraction, and how to master the processes and techniques which will actually allow you to bring different realities into being in your existence.

Now I’m not pretending for a minute that manifestation is an easy process to master, because that would be quite wrong of me.

I don’t fall into the same trap as all the other authors on this subject, of making it sound so simple that you can just sit down in a chair, visualize your goals, think about how joyous it would be if you had them, and then expect them to enter into your life a few days later. You need  help and guidance. But, happily, even in a small town like the one I live in, called Frome in Somerset, in England, you’ll be able to find experts on the subject of visualization who can guide you through some kind of self-development program.

And that’s good, because you have to actually set very clear objectives that are something intensely important to you before you start. That way you can summon up true and passionate desire for what you want.

And you have to have a very clear image of what you’re trying to achieve, and you have to have certainty and expectancy that your goals will manifest in your life, and – above all – you have to take some kind of action that will demonstrate both to you and to the universe that you are committed to change and personal development.

Now, one of the reasons people fail to get what they want is because they have limiting beliefs which inhibit them at a very fundamental level – that is to say, they don’t actually believe that what they’re trying to manifest is possible for them.

In general, these limitations are all about self-worth, and in particular, they are about low self-esteem – particularly when it comes to money, for that, in our society at least, tends to be one of the ways by which we measure our worth.

Although you may not be particularly well aware of the fact, most of us in society are not brought up in a way that leads to us having a strong self-image or a strong sense of self-worth.

That, I think, is one of the reasons why people like Donald Trump are so fascinating to us – we see in them the qualities that we hide, repress and deny in ourselves, and the things they do are the things which (perhaps) at some level we wish we could do.

And having said all of that, the interesting question comes up of how you might find a way of overcoming your inbuilt limitations – and make no mistake about it, these limitations are not a product of anything you’ve done, they are a product of your upbringing and of what other people taught you, and of what you’ve learnt about yourself as an adult.

It’s not easy to change these self-beliefs – in fact, it can be quite difficult, and you need effective techniques such as the power of your subconscious mind to bring about change in these fundamental beliefs which you hold about yourself.

But it is possible – by using powerful techniques that will reinforce your self-esteem, and give you a greater sense of self-awareness –  to overcome the limitations that your life experience has put on you, and to free yourself so that you can actually show at least some of your magnificence and worth to the world as an adult!

Manifestation and the Law of Attraction, of course, are two of the techniques by which you can do this – but I’ve always believed that processes which enhance the operation of the mind need to be backed up by processes which enhance the operation of the body…..  in other words, you need “a healthy mind in a healthy body”. That’s the ideal route to success and achievement on all fronts.

I guess I’m sounding like talking in clichés, but what I suggest you do if you want to test out the truth of this for yourself is to engage in some kind of class which will tone up your body – maybe an exercise class like Pilates, or something that involves stretching and body movements such as yoga. If you’re interested in yoga in Frome, then you could have a look at this website. If you’re interested in yoga in your own town, then you might want to look at a local directory on the Internet, by typing something like “yoga {name of town where you live}” into a search engine.

That way you’re almost certain to find something that can help you develop your body, at the same time as you’re practicing self hypnosis or visualization to improve your financial, emotional, practical or relationship situation.

Video – Yoga In Frome